PERFECT COUPLE

Every woman wants and wants to have the ideal partner. Although you know that the perfect man does not exist, you can tell if your boyfriend has details and attitudes that bring him closer to this definition. 

Here are some points in love and trust to know if you have the man of your dreams by your side.

Every person faces a past and a present. Some are more complicated than others, but that is the way life is and each person must struggle to solve their own problems. Nobody has the obligation to come to rescue us from our living conditions, from our way of thinking, from our sorrows and anguish. No man is the "knight-errant" or the "perfect man" who has to come to "save us", to take us out of the enchanted castle (which we ourselves have formed because we thought we were incapable of going out on our own). We must keep in mind that, to dream, we must stay awake, accept what we are and what we have, we must learn to love ourselves and respect ourselves, to be happy with ourselves. We must learn that the perfect man is in a give and take, in sharing, in tolerance, in trust in ourselves, and when you find who to share what you are and what the other is, you have found the perfect man.

Source: https://www.vix.com/es/imj/pareja/158946/estas-son-las-8-caracteristicas-que-el-novio-perfecto-deberia-tener

In this search, we often take false steps through life, approaching people we idealize, but the search continues: "will it be that the perfect man exists?" Yes, it does exist. But every time we think "this is the right one", we cover it with illusions, dreams and longings ... and later it becomes a real nightmare, because we realize that his personality deteriorates and gives way to what it really is: a man, a human being with defects and virtues. In all that struggle to find the "perfect man" we forget to ask ourselves: "Am I the perfect woman?" We should know that no. We are not the perfect woman, we will not be able to fix the life of any man, because if we can not fix our own problems, how can we fix someone else's? Nor can a man fix a woman's life. We must learn that no human being is an element or an added value. A man is (and should be) someone to share, someone to shine with ... not someone who gives us shine.

PERFECT COUPLE EXAMPLE SONG

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ku-VOL_KAug

Is it so difficult to be the perfect couple? 

The definition of a perfect match is completely subjective, because the ideal partner will usually depend on pur personal tastes and even our own culture; but we can bring to ligth certain characteristics that encompass the global definition os the perfect couple.  

Source: http://www.aumentandomiautoestima.com/blog/tag/the-perfect-couple/

1) Feel good next to each other

Yes, that simple. Feeling so good that it is a necessity. Any excuse is enough. There is nothing to do, just be together. It is to feel comfortable, relaxed, confident, without protocols, without costumes. Naked body and soul. Being lovers of virtues and defects is priceless.

2) Project life together

The ideal couple live the mutual need to project a whole life together. They know how to make their small things really big and the big ones make them small to be able to cover them without at any time losing their protagonism to their relationship. Everything makes sense if it is done together. Buy gifts, travel, change your home, start a new job, release a new coffee machine, have children, know how to fit the difficulties and bad times and enjoy the good ones. Projecting a life together is the result of feeling good next to each other.

3) Confidence, correspondence and freedom

It is to feel that there are no barriers or distrust. It is feeling corresponded at all times. It is feeling that you are free, but that you would not mind being a slave to yourself. 

4) It is feeling that everything is possible

Yes. Even magic, the sky, the stars, a miracle ... Everything is possible.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIJUKW8OmKk&t=176s

Reference: 
- https://www.euroresidentes.com/love/couple/the-perfect-couple.htm

Does the perfect couple really exist?

Some times you'll hear about this term "Perfect couple" from a lot of people who, mainly, describes it like a twosome without problems or discussions that can reach whatever they want, whenever they want but, Does it really exist? What are the requirements? How we know our relationship is not that "perfect"? 

The concept of perfection makes it sounds so ambiguous creating different perspectives about how a couple need to be, nonetheless, the perfect couple isn't that one in which nobody argues or try to avoid who they really are to get a better impression from his/her sweety. 

The imperfection make us perfect in our way and we need to consider this for our relationship. When we accept the other with any defect he/she could has then we're in truly love, The base of a good relationship is the communication, trust and comprommise with the other person. But be careful, it doesn't mean we need to accept anything from the other part, obviously, there are limits and if our couple just cross it without caring about our opinion or feelings then, sadly but truly we are not in a healthy relationship, we are not having a perfect couple. 

Source:http://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2015/07/the-rantin-raven-the-perfect-couple-ideal-or-illusion/ 

Basically I can sum up all mentioned with the thinking of Anais Nin saying: “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.”

Source: https://www.positivityblog.com/relationship-quotes/

Sources: 

• Corby, D. (2015, Julio 4). The Rantin’ Raven: The Perfect Couple – Ideal or Illusion? Retrieved from Patheos: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2015/07/the-rantin-raven-the-perfect-couple-ideal-or-illusion/
• Hedberg, H. (2014, Agosto 28). 68 Inspiring Relationship Quotes. Retrieved from The positivity blog: https://www.positivityblog.com/relationship-quotes/

Perfect Couple 

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First of all, I would tell you, that the friendship among people, boy, and girl it’s possible, the relation among two guys of the same gender it’s possible, and in every case the relation of a best friend it’s more than a fact. However, we know that for many critics this doesn’t exist. Everybody is able to make incredible things that in some way going to meeting the needs of the society.

For this word “Perfect Couple” are a lot of meaning, many stereotypes, the most common to listen is about that -never have problems- but after to many years of acquire knowledge that in my perspective and in based that I know that perfect couple, perfect man and woman it is that which shows in an extraordinary and natural way it being, that if there are problems they face it both without leaving, because they have to remember all of the love that they have.

Nevertheless, the preceding paragraph only to refer when are two young people, because when tread about a perfect couple with sons is a situation some different, same the love always going to shine. 

Now, enjoy listening to this song: Perfect Ed Sheran ft. Beyonce. 

                                                      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=817P8W8-mGE

We are finding some new ways to stops the increasing level of be truant.

As students, we surely know someone who has run away from high school when it is not time to go home, just because they want to skip a specific class, did not do their homework or thay just want to escape for no reason. 

https://educationtrendsandissues.wikispaces.com/Truancy+and+Achievement

This is truancy, an ilegal and intentional absence from education. In our society, it is more common to see this in popular neighborhoods, where there is a higher percentage of parents who do not care about their children (how they are going in school with their grades, behavior, etc). And of course, it also happen in wealhy neighborhoods, but in lower percentage. 

Some people think that this is a reason of the delay in the advancement of society, because our youth are not interested in learning and then they will be "nobody in the future". 

In Ecuador, it is sancionated with temporary suspension of class attendence for fifteen (15) days maximum, where the student must perform some school - led activity, supervised by their legal representative. Also in anglophone countries we can see that other measure to avoid it is the imposition of fines for parents and if in specific cases the fine can be for the young. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjBSgz18uhI&t=29s

Problems at school: "One more fact to be a truant"

As we know truancy is a big problem that is running since ever. But here comes the big question. Have you noticed how bad your son is? Why they just ditch the school instead of carry on?They are problems that can never be solved with a punishment or by paying a finance. These are intrinsic problems that need social psychological help, in order to reduce them.It is so difficult to certain the different facts, because however the truants begin at the age of 13 or 14 years old. They don´t really care aboout nothing because they are envolved in their world.That´s why they ditch the school that according to (Urban Dictionary, 2006) is; "To leave school without permission and give up".

Example of truant
Source: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/11796323/Truancy-offences-on-the-rise-figures-show.html

                                                                                     

School issues:

• Stress - many young people feel under a lot of pressure with school work, exams and all the pressures of growing up, which includes physical change, mood swings and concerns about body image, relationships and identity.

• Bullying - bullying includes physical or verbal attacks or threats, either directly or through their mobile or the internet, social exclusion, sexist and racist abuse. If your child is being bullied, they will need your help to get it stopped.

• Health - if you have any concerns about your child's health, go with them to the doctor for a medical check-up, or the optician’s for an eye-test. Your child may be experiencing depression or other mental health problems so your doctor should be able to arrange medical and counselling help.

• Educational needs - it may be that your child is bored or disillusioned with school because his or her educational needs are not met adequately. Sometimes this can cause a child to act up and be disruptive.

Source: https://www.familylives.org.uk/advice/teenagers/school-learning/truancy/

Analysis: It is very important to emphasize that knowing the problems of your children is much more important than imposing a punishment. Because of this they can generate a greater resentment and the measures that supposedly are good will not have any validity 

Truant Advice

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5PLPbLd7pc

Bibliography:
Geller, L. (05 de 02 de 2006). Urban dictionary . Obtenido de https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ditching

Do another stuff and your future will be the worst!

Actually truancy has become a bad habit for a huge part of students. Skip class to do whatever irresponsible can ingrain consecuences so much for students as parents. 

Some First World Countries such as USA, France, Russia, etc have had to control this situation during years with some solutions being in most of the cases that have been inefficient to eliminate it.

Conscuences of truancy

Souce: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GltC4w2w79c

As you can see being truant has strict consequences like jailing the students if they are adult in other case parents can be arressted. But appart from the problems we can get why should we care about truancy? Is it affecting our society? Well, it has been a problem that we have treated since old times according to (Education.com, 2016) "Data from Wisconsin show that during the 1998-99 school year, 15,600 students or 1.6% of enrolled students were truant per day". But in any era we will still seing trancy if don't take control over our current youth after all Einstein always said "Never consider study as an obligation, but as an opportunity to penetrate the beautiful and wonderful world of knowledge" 

Sources:

• Education.com. (2016, April 27). Truancy Fact Sheet. Retrieved from education.com: https://www.education.com/reference/article/truancy-fact-sheet/
• Odell, R. (2015, Julio 22). Truancy Commercial. Retrieved from Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GltC4w2w79c