PERFECT COUPLE

Every woman wants and wants to have the ideal partner. Although you know that the perfect man does not exist, you can tell if your boyfriend has details and attitudes that bring him closer to this definition. 

Here are some points in love and trust to know if you have the man of your dreams by your side.

Every person faces a past and a present. Some are more complicated than others, but that is the way life is and each person must struggle to solve their own problems. Nobody has the obligation to come to rescue us from our living conditions, from our way of thinking, from our sorrows and anguish. No man is the "knight-errant" or the "perfect man" who has to come to "save us", to take us out of the enchanted castle (which we ourselves have formed because we thought we were incapable of going out on our own). We must keep in mind that, to dream, we must stay awake, accept what we are and what we have, we must learn to love ourselves and respect ourselves, to be happy with ourselves. We must learn that the perfect man is in a give and take, in sharing, in tolerance, in trust in ourselves, and when you find who to share what you are and what the other is, you have found the perfect man.

Source: https://www.vix.com/es/imj/pareja/158946/estas-son-las-8-caracteristicas-que-el-novio-perfecto-deberia-tener

In this search, we often take false steps through life, approaching people we idealize, but the search continues: "will it be that the perfect man exists?" Yes, it does exist. But every time we think "this is the right one", we cover it with illusions, dreams and longings ... and later it becomes a real nightmare, because we realize that his personality deteriorates and gives way to what it really is: a man, a human being with defects and virtues. In all that struggle to find the "perfect man" we forget to ask ourselves: "Am I the perfect woman?" We should know that no. We are not the perfect woman, we will not be able to fix the life of any man, because if we can not fix our own problems, how can we fix someone else's? Nor can a man fix a woman's life. We must learn that no human being is an element or an added value. A man is (and should be) someone to share, someone to shine with ... not someone who gives us shine.

PERFECT COUPLE EXAMPLE SONG

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ku-VOL_KAug

Is it so difficult to be the perfect couple? 

The definition of a perfect match is completely subjective, because the ideal partner will usually depend on pur personal tastes and even our own culture; but we can bring to ligth certain characteristics that encompass the global definition os the perfect couple.  

Source: http://www.aumentandomiautoestima.com/blog/tag/the-perfect-couple/

1) Feel good next to each other

Yes, that simple. Feeling so good that it is a necessity. Any excuse is enough. There is nothing to do, just be together. It is to feel comfortable, relaxed, confident, without protocols, without costumes. Naked body and soul. Being lovers of virtues and defects is priceless.

2) Project life together

The ideal couple live the mutual need to project a whole life together. They know how to make their small things really big and the big ones make them small to be able to cover them without at any time losing their protagonism to their relationship. Everything makes sense if it is done together. Buy gifts, travel, change your home, start a new job, release a new coffee machine, have children, know how to fit the difficulties and bad times and enjoy the good ones. Projecting a life together is the result of feeling good next to each other.

3) Confidence, correspondence and freedom

It is to feel that there are no barriers or distrust. It is feeling corresponded at all times. It is feeling that you are free, but that you would not mind being a slave to yourself. 

4) It is feeling that everything is possible

Yes. Even magic, the sky, the stars, a miracle ... Everything is possible.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIJUKW8OmKk&t=176s

Reference: 
- https://www.euroresidentes.com/love/couple/the-perfect-couple.htm

Does the perfect couple really exist?

Some times you'll hear about this term "Perfect couple" from a lot of people who, mainly, describes it like a twosome without problems or discussions that can reach whatever they want, whenever they want but, Does it really exist? What are the requirements? How we know our relationship is not that "perfect"? 

The concept of perfection makes it sounds so ambiguous creating different perspectives about how a couple need to be, nonetheless, the perfect couple isn't that one in which nobody argues or try to avoid who they really are to get a better impression from his/her sweety. 

The imperfection make us perfect in our way and we need to consider this for our relationship. When we accept the other with any defect he/she could has then we're in truly love, The base of a good relationship is the communication, trust and comprommise with the other person. But be careful, it doesn't mean we need to accept anything from the other part, obviously, there are limits and if our couple just cross it without caring about our opinion or feelings then, sadly but truly we are not in a healthy relationship, we are not having a perfect couple. 

Source:http://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2015/07/the-rantin-raven-the-perfect-couple-ideal-or-illusion/ 

Basically I can sum up all mentioned with the thinking of Anais Nin saying: “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.”

Source: https://www.positivityblog.com/relationship-quotes/

Sources: 

• Corby, D. (2015, Julio 4). The Rantin’ Raven: The Perfect Couple – Ideal or Illusion? Retrieved from Patheos: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2015/07/the-rantin-raven-the-perfect-couple-ideal-or-illusion/
• Hedberg, H. (2014, Agosto 28). 68 Inspiring Relationship Quotes. Retrieved from The positivity blog: https://www.positivityblog.com/relationship-quotes/

Perfect Couple 

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First of all, I would tell you, that the friendship among people, boy, and girl it’s possible, the relation among two guys of the same gender it’s possible, and in every case the relation of a best friend it’s more than a fact. However, we know that for many critics this doesn’t exist. Everybody is able to make incredible things that in some way going to meeting the needs of the society.

For this word “Perfect Couple” are a lot of meaning, many stereotypes, the most common to listen is about that -never have problems- but after to many years of acquire knowledge that in my perspective and in based that I know that perfect couple, perfect man and woman it is that which shows in an extraordinary and natural way it being, that if there are problems they face it both without leaving, because they have to remember all of the love that they have.

Nevertheless, the preceding paragraph only to refer when are two young people, because when tread about a perfect couple with sons is a situation some different, same the love always going to shine. 

Now, enjoy listening to this song: Perfect Ed Sheran ft. Beyonce. 

                                                      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=817P8W8-mGE

We are finding some new ways to stops the increasing level of be truant.

As students, we surely know someone who has run away from high school when it is not time to go home, just because they want to skip a specific class, did not do their homework or thay just want to escape for no reason. 

https://educationtrendsandissues.wikispaces.com/Truancy+and+Achievement

This is truancy, an ilegal and intentional absence from education. In our society, it is more common to see this in popular neighborhoods, where there is a higher percentage of parents who do not care about their children (how they are going in school with their grades, behavior, etc). And of course, it also happen in wealhy neighborhoods, but in lower percentage. 

Some people think that this is a reason of the delay in the advancement of society, because our youth are not interested in learning and then they will be "nobody in the future". 

In Ecuador, it is sancionated with temporary suspension of class attendence for fifteen (15) days maximum, where the student must perform some school - led activity, supervised by their legal representative. Also in anglophone countries we can see that other measure to avoid it is the imposition of fines for parents and if in specific cases the fine can be for the young. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjBSgz18uhI&t=29s

Problems at school: "One more fact to be a truant"

As we know truancy is a big problem that is running since ever. But here comes the big question. Have you noticed how bad your son is? Why they just ditch the school instead of carry on?They are problems that can never be solved with a punishment or by paying a finance. These are intrinsic problems that need social psychological help, in order to reduce them.It is so difficult to certain the different facts, because however the truants begin at the age of 13 or 14 years old. They don´t really care aboout nothing because they are envolved in their world.That´s why they ditch the school that according to (Urban Dictionary, 2006) is; "To leave school without permission and give up".

Example of truant
Source: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/11796323/Truancy-offences-on-the-rise-figures-show.html

                                                                                     

School issues:

• Stress - many young people feel under a lot of pressure with school work, exams and all the pressures of growing up, which includes physical change, mood swings and concerns about body image, relationships and identity.

• Bullying - bullying includes physical or verbal attacks or threats, either directly or through their mobile or the internet, social exclusion, sexist and racist abuse. If your child is being bullied, they will need your help to get it stopped.

• Health - if you have any concerns about your child's health, go with them to the doctor for a medical check-up, or the optician’s for an eye-test. Your child may be experiencing depression or other mental health problems so your doctor should be able to arrange medical and counselling help.

• Educational needs - it may be that your child is bored or disillusioned with school because his or her educational needs are not met adequately. Sometimes this can cause a child to act up and be disruptive.

Source: https://www.familylives.org.uk/advice/teenagers/school-learning/truancy/

Analysis: It is very important to emphasize that knowing the problems of your children is much more important than imposing a punishment. Because of this they can generate a greater resentment and the measures that supposedly are good will not have any validity 

Truant Advice

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5PLPbLd7pc

Bibliography:
Geller, L. (05 de 02 de 2006). Urban dictionary . Obtenido de https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ditching

Do another stuff and your future will be the worst!

Actually truancy has become a bad habit for a huge part of students. Skip class to do whatever irresponsible can ingrain consecuences so much for students as parents. 

Some First World Countries such as USA, France, Russia, etc have had to control this situation during years with some solutions being in most of the cases that have been inefficient to eliminate it.

Conscuences of truancy

Souce: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GltC4w2w79c

As you can see being truant has strict consequences like jailing the students if they are adult in other case parents can be arressted. But appart from the problems we can get why should we care about truancy? Is it affecting our society? Well, it has been a problem that we have treated since old times according to (Education.com, 2016) "Data from Wisconsin show that during the 1998-99 school year, 15,600 students or 1.6% of enrolled students were truant per day". But in any era we will still seing trancy if don't take control over our current youth after all Einstein always said "Never consider study as an obligation, but as an opportunity to penetrate the beautiful and wonderful world of knowledge" 

Sources:

• Education.com. (2016, April 27). Truancy Fact Sheet. Retrieved from education.com: https://www.education.com/reference/article/truancy-fact-sheet/
• Odell, R. (2015, Julio 22). Truancy Commercial. Retrieved from Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GltC4w2w79c

Truancy children it's a problem, pay attention to they.

Truancy parents truancy children.

The unexcused absence isn't a parent's justification, as opposed, are a parents and children’s responsibility. There are a lot of reasons for one child to try to avoid the school, sometimes the parents are witnesses to that and don’t say any. Other times they are victims too because family ties are broken, the child becomes rebellious, believing that he has no responsibility to others.

Truancy children is a social-educational problem, depends a lot on the governmental politics’ country. According to Educational System’s Education in 2009-10 in Wyoming, United States, High School Graduations Rate were 80.4% and the same system published that in 2015-16 these rates reached 80% like at say the picture:

https://edu.wyoming.gov/blog/2017/01/17/wyoming-high-school-graduation-rate-rises-to-80/

If we look at 2013-14 the rate of HSG was increasing. But the same year in Sacramento, United States the situation was totally different; according to news many school districts exceeded the children's level truancy and the financial impact was much higher, according to with readings there were more example and more truant’s percent the same year.

So, an argument that influences are a factor very important in the behavior of children; however, the parents are the fundamental pillar in their lives and for same reason are the main responsible of their lives.

http://www.onlineparentingcoach.com/2011/03/how-to-stop-truancy-60-tips-for-parents.html

Absenteeism is considered in school only if there is a medical health problem or a funeral case. “Your child’s mental health is more important than their grades”. Doesn’t matter in a lot way the grades, is something can be high or low, always, but that your child is preparing by the future, assist to school in a good way, the knowledge that got is another completely different thing. Truancy children could be many problems in a no longer future.

This video can help you understand in a better way the situation, pay very attention:

                                                                                      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRW8BXypewg

To be born is not your fault, to die poor is your fault.

(Gates, B.)

In the most of the cases of children or teenagers who were abandoned by their parents is due to a great economic instability, so, it means that they born poor, in such a way that they can not decide the course of life they would like, but rather they need to work to survive with the most basic resources that they can find.

Every time there is a gradual advance in benefit to those people who could not choose their lifestyle, nowadays it is the government itself that gives them the opportunity to study in order to achieve a future job that allows them to improve their style of life. 

And here is the reason for the title, throughout our lives, there will always be difficulties that seek to slow down our progress, in some lives they will be lighter, in others heavier; however it is only your decision to face adversity in exchange for the great future reward, it is assumed that sooner or later traumas will be created, but it is just another adversity. 

If at some point in your life you pass by a person who did not have the luck that you had to be able to choose the direction of her life, spend a few minutes to see the next video, let him know that his life can change with effort.

Porcentual facts about Runaways and Thronaway

Porcentual Facts about Runaways and thronaways:

INTRODUCTION TO RUNAWAY AND HOMELESS YOUTH ISSUES:

1. Between 1.6 and 2.8 million youth run away in a year. (Hammer et al, 2002, Greene, 1995) , That means that 1.5% of the poblation of teenagers and kids are running away for different reasons. Could be (Political, social, psychological, phisically abuse) facts.
2. Over 30% of respondents who had been in foster care as an adolescent had also run away from home compared to 8.1% of individuals who had not been in foster care. NRS Longitudinal study full report, NRS Longitudinal study executive summary. If we could understand the situation that live nowadays this kids, we could give our personal opinion, it is normally the increasing of the % of runaways in foster care because they dont have nothing more to lose. They feel unwanted and unsaved, even when they were rescue. This feeling of opression impulse the kids to make decisitions. Really bad ones.

Source: https://www.1800runaway.org/runaway-statistics/third-partystatistics/#victimization-of-youth

FOCUS ON ABUSE

1. 80% of runaway and homeless girls reported having ever been sexually or physically abused.(Molnar et al, 1998)
2. 34% of runaway youth (girls and boys) reported sexual abuse before leaving home.  (Molnar et al, 1998)
3. 43% of runaway youth (girls and boys) reported physical abuse before leaving home. (Molnar et al, 1998)

Analysis: 

When a young man or boy leaves his case without a direction or direction, nothing good can happen. All you have to do is stay under the omen of your soul, waiting for years and sad nights the answer to why your purpose here. Not to mention that some fall into despair and chaos, losing themselves in the eternity of bad decisions.

"Slept on the sidewalk poem" 

Source: https://www.vix.com/es/imj/familia/7152/que-hacer-cuando-un-hijo-huye-de-casa

Source: https://www.1800runaway.org/runaway-statistics/third-party-statistics/#focus-on-abuse

VISUAL AND AUSIOVISUAL AIDS

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRtvqT_wMeY

This video, show us the truely about runaway. Just listen with attention the lyric.

An ever-increasing problem

The problem that families are facing more and more.

In nowadays it’s not uncommon to hear topics about homeless children, abuse sexual, lost children, youth trafficker, economically and educationally problems and obvious runaways and throwaways cases. All these issues are focused mainly on problems at home, or the majority of teenagers believe that is the main factor because the values of home are not clearly and all members do it whatever activities that they want and anybody put order. 

The relation that should exist in one family has to be intimate, very harmonious with trust among all members, but sadly these essential aspects are not possible in all homes and for this reason, the youth run away to home, or maybe others are forced to leave. The causes for that one little kid or a teenager leave the house are many; nevertheless, the consequences are more. 

https://www.churchtimes.co.uk/articles/2007/26-october/features/a-helping-hand-to-the-children-who-run-away-from-home

For example, the picture shows how to start a person who leaves the house, but the consequences are more catastrophic. Nobody knows how can finish her or his life, the most common is that be a child's street ask for money and food, or be a missing youth because actually the kids and teenagers are victims of prostitution, organs traffic, and dug's problems. In UK every 10 minutes a teen run away from the house, and each 10% that run away are prone to not being educated and this represents a socio-educational challenge of prolonged growth that involves and affects all nations. 

To conclude this little entry is recommendable to express in a very comfortable way the thinking or feeling that you have and find help in the people that you feel that it's good and always find your well. 

Not leave your home for any little difficult situation that you have. You are a special person for a group of people, and they always going to worry if you’re past a critical situation💖.

                                                           https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOReXHOSnvw

With this video, you can understand in a better way the situation; maybe you can interpret the different perspective. Sometimes by a wrong's interpretation commentary, you can make a wrong decision that perhaps there's no turning back for this reason you always have to talk and express your opinion for not do it an act with bad consequences. Almost 3 of 10 teens (kids even) leave the home for situations like that. Think very well before you do a bad thing. 

Paths without comeback. A way of no return.

It's not a novelty that in our world the runaways and thrownaways cases still existing. After all the youth is living a situation where a great part of parents are not taking care of them, I mean, where did the discipline and the love for a family dissapear? Sadly but truly we still having these issues where a father or mother don't want to take care about their children or even teach them why the family is one of the most important things we have as humans.                                                                             Source: http://chameleonteacher.com/articulos/limbo-diseno-niveles/

The decision of walk away from home and leave the nest without knowing how to fly is one of the hardest and risky decisions the runaways take in some cases because their house is not a home. 

By other side is not unusual to see children working at streets trying to get some money in order to eat something or to feed the entire family that didn't want to realize in the case of parents that the poorness just bring more poorness. Why do we still being cheeky about the reality in which we are living? This is the situation of thrownaways, children which born in disgrace to endure illnesses, hungry, sadness, a life without childhood, a life the mark their parents used to curse them.

Source: https://listas.20minutos.es/lista/los-ninos-mendigos-de-potosi-379303/

There is a video of trownaways to understand their suffering and painful "life". 

 Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNZ5QdFX0cQ