PERFECT COUPLE

Every woman wants and wants to have the ideal partner. Although you know that the perfect man does not exist, you can tell if your boyfriend has details and attitudes that bring him closer to this definition. 

Here are some points in love and trust to know if you have the man of your dreams by your side.

Every person faces a past and a present. Some are more complicated than others, but that is the way life is and each person must struggle to solve their own problems. Nobody has the obligation to come to rescue us from our living conditions, from our way of thinking, from our sorrows and anguish. No man is the "knight-errant" or the "perfect man" who has to come to "save us", to take us out of the enchanted castle (which we ourselves have formed because we thought we were incapable of going out on our own). We must keep in mind that, to dream, we must stay awake, accept what we are and what we have, we must learn to love ourselves and respect ourselves, to be happy with ourselves. We must learn that the perfect man is in a give and take, in sharing, in tolerance, in trust in ourselves, and when you find who to share what you are and what the other is, you have found the perfect man.

Source: https://www.vix.com/es/imj/pareja/158946/estas-son-las-8-caracteristicas-que-el-novio-perfecto-deberia-tener

In this search, we often take false steps through life, approaching people we idealize, but the search continues: "will it be that the perfect man exists?" Yes, it does exist. But every time we think "this is the right one", we cover it with illusions, dreams and longings ... and later it becomes a real nightmare, because we realize that his personality deteriorates and gives way to what it really is: a man, a human being with defects and virtues. In all that struggle to find the "perfect man" we forget to ask ourselves: "Am I the perfect woman?" We should know that no. We are not the perfect woman, we will not be able to fix the life of any man, because if we can not fix our own problems, how can we fix someone else's? Nor can a man fix a woman's life. We must learn that no human being is an element or an added value. A man is (and should be) someone to share, someone to shine with ... not someone who gives us shine.

PERFECT COUPLE EXAMPLE SONG

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ku-VOL_KAug

Is it so difficult to be the perfect couple? 

The definition of a perfect match is completely subjective, because the ideal partner will usually depend on pur personal tastes and even our own culture; but we can bring to ligth certain characteristics that encompass the global definition os the perfect couple.  

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1) Feel good next to each other

Yes, that simple. Feeling so good that it is a necessity. Any excuse is enough. There is nothing to do, just be together. It is to feel comfortable, relaxed, confident, without protocols, without costumes. Naked body and soul. Being lovers of virtues and defects is priceless.

2) Project life together

The ideal couple live the mutual need to project a whole life together. They know how to make their small things really big and the big ones make them small to be able to cover them without at any time losing their protagonism to their relationship. Everything makes sense if it is done together. Buy gifts, travel, change your home, start a new job, release a new coffee machine, have children, know how to fit the difficulties and bad times and enjoy the good ones. Projecting a life together is the result of feeling good next to each other.

3) Confidence, correspondence and freedom

It is to feel that there are no barriers or distrust. It is feeling corresponded at all times. It is feeling that you are free, but that you would not mind being a slave to yourself. 

4) It is feeling that everything is possible

Yes. Even magic, the sky, the stars, a miracle ... Everything is possible.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIJUKW8OmKk&t=176s

Reference: 
- https://www.euroresidentes.com/love/couple/the-perfect-couple.htm

Does the perfect couple really exist?

Some times you'll hear about this term "Perfect couple" from a lot of people who, mainly, describes it like a twosome without problems or discussions that can reach whatever they want, whenever they want but, Does it really exist? What are the requirements? How we know our relationship is not that "perfect"? 

The concept of perfection makes it sounds so ambiguous creating different perspectives about how a couple need to be, nonetheless, the perfect couple isn't that one in which nobody argues or try to avoid who they really are to get a better impression from his/her sweety. 

The imperfection make us perfect in our way and we need to consider this for our relationship. When we accept the other with any defect he/she could has then we're in truly love, The base of a good relationship is the communication, trust and comprommise with the other person. But be careful, it doesn't mean we need to accept anything from the other part, obviously, there are limits and if our couple just cross it without caring about our opinion or feelings then, sadly but truly we are not in a healthy relationship, we are not having a perfect couple. 

Source:http://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2015/07/the-rantin-raven-the-perfect-couple-ideal-or-illusion/ 

Basically I can sum up all mentioned with the thinking of Anais Nin saying: “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.”

Source: https://www.positivityblog.com/relationship-quotes/

Sources: 

• Corby, D. (2015, Julio 4). The Rantin’ Raven: The Perfect Couple – Ideal or Illusion? Retrieved from Patheos: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/agora/2015/07/the-rantin-raven-the-perfect-couple-ideal-or-illusion/
• Hedberg, H. (2014, Agosto 28). 68 Inspiring Relationship Quotes. Retrieved from The positivity blog: https://www.positivityblog.com/relationship-quotes/

Perfect Couple 

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First of all, I would tell you, that the friendship among people, boy, and girl it’s possible, the relation among two guys of the same gender it’s possible, and in every case the relation of a best friend it’s more than a fact. However, we know that for many critics this doesn’t exist. Everybody is able to make incredible things that in some way going to meeting the needs of the society.

For this word “Perfect Couple” are a lot of meaning, many stereotypes, the most common to listen is about that -never have problems- but after to many years of acquire knowledge that in my perspective and in based that I know that perfect couple, perfect man and woman it is that which shows in an extraordinary and natural way it being, that if there are problems they face it both without leaving, because they have to remember all of the love that they have.

Nevertheless, the preceding paragraph only to refer when are two young people, because when tread about a perfect couple with sons is a situation some different, same the love always going to shine. 

Now, enjoy listening to this song: Perfect Ed Sheran ft. Beyonce. 

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